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TMI Tuesday: October 29, 2019

You have been separated from your significant other for six months. An attractive, attentive neighbour has paid you flattering attention. It is obvious he/she wishes to take the relationship further. Do you: a. Dismiss him/her, you’re in a committed relationship. b. Continue to flirt, but go no further. c. Fantasize about him/her, but take care of your sexual needs solo. d. Let the affair become physical. I think what needs to be looked at first is the reason behind the separation. If it’s because the relationship has come to an end, then there is no reason to not let things develop as they may. If you are separated by circumstance, e.g. it’s a long distance relationship or the other person spends a significant amount of time away from home due to work, then really it comes down to the dynamic of the relationship. I’ve covered this before , but I have no problem with flirting, and what goes on in my head, really stays in my head. As to whether or not I would allow things to move beyo