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TMI Tuesday: June 25, 2019

How many sexual partners do you currently have? None. I counted them twice just to make certain. Do you have any sexy secret kinks you have not told a current lover, and why are you so secretive? A. I don’t want to do my kinks with my current partner B. Partner would be shocked C. Partner may get upset D. I have no secrets I refer you to the answer to Q1 above. That said, I’ve always been open about my sexual tastes and desires with partners as I believe that communication and openness is key to fulfillment in any aspect (not just the sexual aspect) of a relationship. Have you ever been naked in public? (e.g., nude beach, nudist camp, randomly) A. Yes – loved it B. Yes – but would not do it again C. No – but would consider it D. No – would not ever do that Many times on beaches, particularly in Greece. It wasn’t a nudist beach per se, but the dress-code was very definitely “optional”. Would happily do it again. It’s one of those things but it loses its shock value and isn’t sexua

TMI Tuesday: June 18, 2019 - Love is love, is everything to me

Love is love, is everything to me Love is made of many components. What are your top three components of love? For me, I think companionship, compassion empathy and the various forms of intimacy (physical, emotional, intellectual, sexual) are all hugely important elements of love. I’m not sure that any of them are more important than the other, but they combine in different ways, under differing circumstances to change, grow, evolve and, sadly sometimes, wither. For you what is good sex, and what is great sex? Good sex is pretty much any sex that isn’t bad. Yes, I know that’s a bit of a cop out, but you know what I mean. It’s sex that satisfies the basic need but that is also,enjoyable, it’s fun, it feels good, it makes you smile on the inside. Great sex is something much more; it consumes and drains you. It satisfies you in the very core of your being. It’s more than just the intensity of the release, it’s sex that makes the very essence of your being resonate. In long-term