- What is sexy time to you?
Essentially, “sexy time” is basically any time I’m engaging in any form of sexual activity with another person. They don’t have to be physically present; we could be sexting or calling each other, but it has to involve the arousal of both me and another person. Solo sessions, on the very rare occasions they happen, are “me time”.
- Who’s sexier–women or men?
This is one of those questions that falls very firmly into the “eye of the beholder” category. For me it is a simple answer: women; I don’t find men sexy at all. That’s not to say that I can’t recognise male attractiveness, but my own gender does not interest me sexually in any way. The female body, on the other hand, is, in my opinion, nature’s finest work.
- How did you learn to masturbate, and how old were you when you first succeeded?
So long ago (we’re talking early 1980s) I truly can’t remember. I was probably around 12/13. Not sure there was much learning involved. My penis, like that of most adolescent males, had a mind of its own and would spontaneously tumesce for little or no reason. I discovered that I liked the sensation of touching it when it was hard and, from there, the rest is history.
- Do you like taking naked photos of yourself?
Given that I have taken and shared photos of myself with a number of partners, I think it’s pretty safe to assume I enjoy this. Partially it plays to my exhibitionist streak (pun possibly intended), but also I like the technical challenge of taking “self portraits”.
- What is your biggest sexual fear?
In my youthful days, it was probably that no one would actually find me attractive enough to actually want to have sex with me. That particular issue has long since been discarded. I am fortunate that I don’t really have any particular hang-ups about my body and sex. My only occasional concern is that my mental health can and often does have a negative impact on my libido. This isn’t something I can really control so I just have to live with it and work around it to the best of my ability.
Am I allowed to say my own? Again, I think this is another “eye of the beholder” thing. I’ve written a number of posts about my penis, and one thing I’ve been fairly consistent on is the fact that in my opinion, the penis epitomises function over aesthetic quality. As a man who takes nude photos, it’s almost inevitable that my penis will have at least a cameo appearance in some of my photos, and sometimes I allow it to enjoy the position of "main billing" (but only consensually). The reality is, however, that I find them (yes, including my own) to be borderline comical. I appreciate that some people may like how penises look, but for me it has always been much more about the feelings mine is responsible for producing when being used.